24 rules for being a gentleman in 2014…

what makes a gentleman?  is it the clothes he wears?  is it the way he carries himself?  is it how he treats others?  while i believe being a gentleman constitutes all of these…and more…i came across this fabulous list written by chelsea fagan…24 rules for being a gentleman in 2014…

yesterday i shared the 24 rules for being a lady…and of course…i couldn’t leave the men out…so here are some of my faves…but do click on the link above…as they are ALL important…

3. Hold doors open for everyone, because that’s just a nice thing that you do.

24. Be compassionate, and know that you are allowed to experience the full range of human emotion. Where the gentleman of our grandparents’ generation might have prided himself on keeping all of his feelings in check for fear of seeming ‘feminine,’ a real gentleman knows that the best thing about him is his ability to be kind and empathetic. Everything else — yes, even the suit — is just icing on the cake.

oh…and by the way…#5 & #8 i can help you with…

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